ART OF LIVING
Ways To Pep Up Your Popularity Spend some time with people you want to be friend...... It's a response built into us as a result of our evolutionary past, when people were more likely to survive if they approached people and creatures only once they had determined they were non-threatening. So schedule regular activities with others and the more time you spend together,the more you will grow to like each other. Talk positively about other people...... When you talk about another person,listeners unconsciously associate you with the characteristics you're describing. "So, say positive and pleasant things about friends and colleagues and you are seen as a nice person." Ask a lot of questions....... Talking about ourselves triggers the same pleasure chemicals in the brain as food or money. In fact, participants were willing to forgo money in order talk about themselves. Stay upbeat...... Moods are contagious - and the transmission from one person to another is so i